FRIDAY NIGHT was... memorable.
Cally picked me up with Amber late, and then on the way to the Church for speed dating detoured to a gas station. Yes, we were out of gas, however I'm pretty sure she planned that so we could spend as much time away from the speed dating as possible.
"Guys, I really, really don't want to do this..." was a very common phrase for her on the drive over.
We cruised into the church parking lot and into the gym where they had a huge rectangle of tables with chairs on either side, boys on one, girls on the other.
When me Cally and Amber sat down, there were two, too few guys so for a while, the guys speed dated all three of us. Aha, most of them were quite fine with the idea. However eventually more guys showed up and we had to seperate. And lucky for us the guys who showed up had a lot of... personality. Aha.
My favourite speed date went a little like this...
Guy: What ward you in?
Kyra: M--------.
Guy: Really me too I haven't seen you.
Kyra: Oh I've been gone, this Sunday is my first Sunday in YSA.
Guy: Potluck this Sunday you know!
Kyra: Oh cool, I'll be there, I like food.
Guy: Yeah, maybe we can sit together and be like hey you, friend that I've known for a whole two days!
Kyra: Yeah... maybe.
Guy: Maybe we can hold hands.
Kyra: ....Uhh.. we'll see what happens....
Guy: Yeah, maybe people will think that's weird us knowing eachother for only two days and then holding hands.
Kyra: Probably
So then thankfully, the timer went off and they had to move over, but a guy showed up and took the spot the guy I just had a hand holding offer from was supposed to move to, so he was stuck and so we got to have TWO SPEED DATES! yaaaayyy...
After speed dating there was barely anyone at the dance so me, Cally, Courtney, Amber and Courtney's cousin all went to Wendy's for food. Courtney was just as clever as she was when we met at age 5 and she connected two straws and reached across the table to steal some of my drink. Cally also dared me to eat this jalopeno salad dressing and I did, it was mighty fine on my baked potato lol.
When we returned to the dance a creepy guy came up to Cally and informed her that "if they ever tried to make a doll of [her] [she] should say no because they wouldn't be able to recreate [her] beauty."
Later he came up to her from behind grabbing her shoulders and asked...
"Do you find me handsome?"
Cally: Uhh... yes....?
Boy: What do you find handsome about me?
Cally: uhhh
Boy: Is it my eyes?
Cally: You're putting me on the spot...
Boy: Sorry I'm a curious george... and stumbled away into the hoards of dancing young adults.
During slow songs we would beeline for the refreshments table which consisted of brocolli, peppermint patties, candy frogs, and a frothy expeired lime tasting beverage.
The dance ended, I danced with no-one, anddddd I was scarred for life. Aha.
SUNDAY was today, and my first Sunday in the singles ward. Cally's older brother picked me up along with two of his friends. I climbed in exlaiming how it was clearly a party van and they full heartidly agreed.
Church was in a conference room which I was not expecting at all, and it was so quiet compared to home ward you were scared to clear your throat because everyone would hear it. The second hour I just stayed where I was sitting and it was a very sad class as the young teacher tried his best at teaching, but no-one answered a single question. Felt bad for the guy. Relief Society a girl I met a few years ago came and sat with me and there's a St.Patricks Relief Society supper this Wednesday night so that should be interesting too. After church I went and stood by Cally's brother who was handing out parking passes and met a young man named Chris. He told me he'd forget my name, everyone tells me that when they meet me. However while introducing myself, the guy behind me turned around and began bubbling over with excitement as he as the young man who requested we hold hands at potluck! So this guy Chris is trying to talk to me, and this other guy is talking about holding hands and eating food, and the other is talking about forgetting my name and asking me my age, and the other one is reminding me how we speed dated, (TWICE), and my head is turning back and forth and so I was grateful when Cally's bro suggested we head down to the potluck. They made us breakfast for supper and I sat as far away as possible from hand holder, although he did request we sit in the same row in church next Sunday and bare our testimonies together....
After I got a ride home with a newly returned missionary and that was kinda nerve wracking because I don't really know this guy and he's 21 and I'm 18 but we had a nice chat.
Verdict on Singles Ward is: There are extremely creepy guys, there are extremely attractive guys, it is extremely quiet and they have food, therefore, I'm in! Aha. I should get a calling soon! I wonder what it will be!
Next on the agenda, recruiting for Katimavik in person, hanging with Spencer, figuring out the job sitch, and Relief Society party!
Thanks for reading!